I think my idea is simple. Encourage people to connect through a basic site, then actually get out and meet up in person. Some people may think this is a risk, as meeting strangers only connected with on-line is an unknown quantity. If you do decide to meet someone through this site, please take someone with you. Ensure that you meet in a place where other people meet too; and tell someone where you are going, who you are meeting and for how long. Make sure someone has your mobile number. Be sensible and responsible and enjoy yourselves!